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About the Book: Damocles' Wife
Surviving Fully through the Journey of Cancer
- - - - - - - - - - - - -Damocles’ Wife: The Inside Story of Cancer Caregiving & Long-Term Survival If you've ever wondered how you might find the courage, hope, and faith to face the challenges of cancer and caregiving, you're not alone. Damocles’ Wife reveals the inner journey of a cancer caregiver, a young wife and mother whose husband becomes a long-term survivor of brain cancer. Follow their story, inside and out, through nine months of brain tumor treatment: neurosurgery, radiation, tumor doubles, second opinions, second surgery–this time awake–with photodynamic therapy, chemo, chemo, chemo, then high-dose chemotherapy with stem-cell rescue. Recovery… Given a prognosis of two to five years, maybe ten, for his astrocytoma, Scott invoked his inner samurai to face aggressive traditional treatment, combined with integrative medicine like Healing Touch. Meanwhile, Shelly called on her inner resources, plus the rest of Scott’s caregiving crew, so that she could take care of him, herself, and their preschooler son, Wil, and still be standing no matter what. This is the whole family's story of learning to cope not only with the practical aspects of cancer and caregiving but, most essentially, how to really survive—in your soul. Join their journey as they learn to take down the Sword of Damocles hanging over Scott’s head and finally embrace life with all of its changes. The first caregiver memoir to address long-term cancer survival, Damocles’ Wife will resonate with families facing cancer of all kinds, families dealing with chronic illness, disability, and dementia, as well as families of returning soldiers now facing life with traumatic brain injury. The book is a timely and poignant "case study" because in April 2012, TEDMED named "The Caregiving Crisis" the #2 most important health and medical issue of the year. What is the Sword of Damocles ( DAM-uh-kleez) ?
In 1981, researchers named Gerald P. Koocher, PhD, and John D. O'Malley, MD, authored a book called The Damocles' Syndrome in which they described the long-term, persistent fear that survivors of childhood cancer feel, ever wondering when their cancer might return and kill them. In Damocles' Wife, Shelly Francis offers her own viewpoint of how cancer caregivers are perhaps even more aware of that Sword of Damocles' hanging over the head of their loved one and what the threat of cancer recurrence means for their own unknown future. Here is an excerpt from Damocles' Wife: "Only Scott and I knew, as we feasted, that a sharp samurai sword hung in the air over our table, over Scott’s head, his Sword of Damocles. From where I sat, I could see it quite plainly. Is that the caregiver’s curse—to notice that sword on a thread more often, more clearly, than the patient himself? It was time to step out from under that sword." About the Author
As Damocles’ Wife goes off to the printer in 2012, Wil is graduating high school and going off to college. Scott is traveling around the world, tumor free. And Shelly is packing her proverbial knapsack with fresh music, her camera and journal, art supplies, and dark chocolate, to set off on a new path, “carefree” in a normal sort of way. “All of us are written upon by the challenges we faced, but with many more unwritten pages ahead,” says Shelly. “We are each living our next book in life—beyond just new chapters.” You can reach Shelly with questions, comments, or to share your own caregiving and long-term cancer survival stories by sending email to shelly @ CaregiverHope.com. |
Damocles’ Wife: The Inside Story of Cancer Caregiving & Long-Term Survival in the Midst of Motherhood, Marriage & Making Life Matter Shelly L. Francis Also at Amazon UK and Or please ask for it at your favorite local independent bookstore, who can order it for you. Tattered Cover: 303-322-7727 * * Page 230 mentions Tattered Cover when it was still in Cherry Creek: "We celebrated at the Fourth Story restaurant above The Tattered Cover, which had become our standard post-MRI tradition of gourmet lunch and a new book, both soul food..." - - - - - - - - - - - - - Get
a glimpse into the new book that reveals the inner journey
of a cancer caregiver, a young
wife and mother whose husband becomes a long-term survivor of brain
cancer. It's the whole family's story of summoning courage, hope and faith while
learning to cope not only with the practical aspects of cancer and
caregiving but, most essentially, how
to really survive Join their journey as they learn to take down the Sword of Damocles hanging over Scott’s head and finally embrace life with all of its changes. - - - - - - - - - - - - - Join the conversation |
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